My Ex boyfriend blamed me for everything and I don't know who to get advice from. Please help?

2022.01.23 09:32 Wise-Cupcake9981 My Ex boyfriend blamed me for everything and I don't know who to get advice from. Please help?

Okay so, let me start with my story. I (F23) from India, met my ex online (M28)from India aswell but studying in Canada. When I was inquiring about the college he studied at, as I was planning to take admission in the same. We clicked right away and became very good friends. He later started flirting with me right before I was leaving for Canada. I was busy with a 3day course and by the time I got back He told me his parents have already chosen a girl for him.
We stopped talking, then he msged me again saying he doesn't feel its right and wants to talk with me more about us. I liked him aswell so I said okay. Then we started video calling and chatting pretty much every hour of the day till I met him when I moved to Canada. After meeting it was again an instant attraction, we kissed on the same night lol. And thats how our love story started. It was amazing in the beginning. But later, we started having fights, becz he wouldn't tell his parents about me. I didnt have a problem as I wanted him to take his own time as it was a huge revelation. But there was this specific day when he took the other girl's side over me and that kinda made me feel like he respects her more than me. I told him right away that either you let the entire world know about us or we're done. He kept making excuses like his parents fell sick, the girls parents fell sick etc. I got sooo frustrated to a point where I stopped taking his shit. We used to have fights almost daily as I was so done, he wouldn't let me go and wouldn't tell his family either. Anyway, it kept going like this. Then we had a major fight where he HIT me, because I didn't tell him I was going for an interview. ( Now let me give you a little more background about this, I used to work at a salon, where I wasn't getting my tips. My boss would call me for just 2 hours, she'd pay me $28 for an hour and transportation cost to work would be $40 a day. I got a better opportunity at another salon and he told me not to do that becz he felt it was too far and that working at a new salon would be difficult and some other bs . Anyway, I then got another interview call from a restaurant, so this time I didnt tell him about it as I wanted to let him know that I was done with the salon by saying I got a better opportunity. I later told him I got selected and he was so mad I didnt tell him about it that he hit me.) Anyway he later got convinced only after I cried and said I can't take this stress anymore. And if he wants he can pay for my expenses. So he agreed to me taking that job.
Anyway, everything must be sounding sooo crazy, but this is how it happens in Indian culture. You take permission from your boyfriend/husband.
Okay fast forward to a couple of months (I'm already sorry if it is boring, but I'm just so sad I don't understand what to do). He left for another city cz he felt his friends are being more successful by going there. And this is when things started getting worst. He finally decided to tell his parents, when he found out his dad actually purchased a ring for the other girl. And after he told them about it they got pretty mad, and stopped speaking with him. I saw him change in this time period, he wouldn't speak with me, he kept asking for space etc. And finally he started picking up the fight about the interview and kept stressing me for 3nights straight. Until finally, I said I can't take this shit anymore as I have two classes, one training and one meeting the next day. So I blocked him. After three days, when I cooled down I unblocked him as I was missing him. He told me we're done. I said okay and I made my mind about it. He later called me again and asked me about the airpods I got for his upcoming bday and what did I do with my flight tickets. He also asked me if I wanted to sort it out, but I was so hurt at that point I said no and then he disconnected (This call lasted 10mins). After 2days I was missing all our good moments, so I decided to sort it out as he said and I called him, he said he is done with me. I said that I loved him, I cried, he stayed cold hearted, I tried convincing him for 1hr and 45mins straight and all he did was blame me for everything. He said me he hit me because I made him do that, I stressed him out so much etc. He said being with me has made him only a bad person. And that I was responsible for all the fights. I tried asking him, what would've he done if I was getting engaged to someone else and calling and chatting with them??. Anyway, another last Background story is that I used to pay for most of our shit. I threw him a grad party with the decor worth $500. I booked my flights to meet him, I purchased airpods, power bank and a tshirt for him for his bday. While, he didnt plan any surprise for my past bday and he didnt even get a cake, we went to get it together. Anyway he was mostly broke, so he had ro ask money from his father to pay his credit card bills (which his dad wouldn't do, if he said no to the girl).
NOW FINALLLYYYY, (Sorry for making it soooo long, but you guys need to know it to give me an advice lol) My question here is, was I only the one to blame? Was it all my fault? Also a part of me says he actually left me because of his family because he wouldn't get any money from them. I dont know, can someone understand this dude's psychology and tell me what is happening here? Or men can you tell me what is going on in his mind?? And after doing so much for a person, (I used to cook for him, I stayed up all night at his work place for him cz he wasn't well, I got kicked out by my landlord from last home because of him. I even made lunch for him before he left for work, I made a little hamper for him with fruits, granola bars, Juices, water and sandwiches before he drove to another city.) Do you think he will ever regret his decision and come back?
Thank you so much everyone for reading through my stupid sad story and if anyone replies, thanks to you all aswell. And Take Care!
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Hello!
Im Al currently selling some adopt me pets for rhd!
I currently have a discount right now so purchases more than 3 pets will be getting one of their pets free! But If someone buys everything they get a few PSX Pets for free and 1 of the pets they bought will be free! :D (If you dont play PSX dont worry! I will just give you 3 mythic eggs for free! >:D)
Also reminder I might be going first for every single trade because I dont have any going second proof..... (Well i have two but i forgot to post them )
Anyways you may ask for ages by the way!
Legendarys:
None
- SORRY FOR NO LEGS, IM CURRENTLY NOT TRADING THE LEGS I HAVE RN
Ultra-rares:
Starfish (1x) 15k ( Can Lower price! :D )
Wyvern (2x) 15k each (I can lower price!)
Hydra (1x) 12k
Clownfish (1x) 5k
Lunar ox (1x) 4k
NFR Panda (1x) 100k (Sorry if overpriced not sure what its worth- I can lower it to 80k btw :])
Rares:
Merhorse (1x) 3k
Narwhale (3x) 4k each
Ox (2x) 2k each
Rabbit (3x) 3k each
Sasquatch (2x) 2k each
Snow puma (2x) 2k each
Uncommons:
Choco labrador (1x) 2k
Dingo (1x) 3k
Fennec fox (1x) 2k
Kirin (3x) 3k each
Puma (2x) 2k each
Stegosaurus (1x) 3k
Triceratops (2x) 2k each
Commons:
Ground sloth (2x) 2k each
Wolpertinger (4x) 2k each
Thats the end of my shop!
Tell me if anything is overpriced :D
I can lower prices btw!
Have a nice day/afternoon/night !
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2022.01.23 09:31 empirestateisgreat Can't compile Signal from source

I want to compile the Signal Android app from source, so I cloned the git repo, and ran ./gradlew build in the directory.
I get this error and I have no idea what to do.

Picked up _JAVA_OPTIONS: -Dawt.useSystemAAFontSettings=on -Dswing.aatext=true Type-safe dependency accessors is an incubating feature. > Configure project :Signal-Android WARNING:DSL element 'dexOptions' is obsolete and should be removed. It will be removed in version 8.0 of the Android Gradle plugin. Using it has no effect, and the AndroidGradle plugin optimizes dexing automatically. WARNING:BuildType(flipper): buildConfigField 'BUILD_VARIANT_TYPE' value is being replaced. WARNING:BuildType(perf): buildConfigField 'BUILD_VARIANT_TYPE' value is being replaced. WARNING:BuildType(mock): buildConfigField 'BUILD_VARIANT_TYPE' value is being replaced. WARNING:API 'BaseVariant.getApplicationIdTextResource' is obsolete and has been replaced with 'VariantProperties.applicationId'. It will be removed in version 7.0 of the Android Gradle plugin. For more information, see TBD. To determine what is calling BaseVariant.getApplicationIdTextResource, use -Pandroid.debug.obsoleteApi=true on the command line to display more information. > Task :core-util:kaptGenerateStubsDebugKotlin FAILED e: java.lang.NoClassDefFoundError: Could not initialize class org.jetbrains.kotlin.com.intellij.pom.java.LanguageLevel at org.jetbrains.kotlin.com.intellij.core.CoreLanguageLevelProjectExtension.(CoreLanguageLevelProjectExtension.java:26) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.com.intellij.core.JavaCoreProjectEnvironment.(JavaCoreProjectEnvironment.java:42) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.jvm.compiler.KotlinCoreProjectEnvironment.(KotlinCoreProjectEnvironment.kt:26) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.jvm.compiler.KotlinCoreEnvironment$ProjectEnvironment.(KotlinCoreEnvironment.kt:121) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.jvm.compiler.KotlinCoreEnvironment$Companion.createForProduction(KotlinCoreEnvironment.kt:425) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.jvm.K2JVMCompiler.createCoreEnvironment(K2JVMCompiler.kt:226) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.jvm.K2JVMCompiler.doExecute(K2JVMCompiler.kt:152) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.jvm.K2JVMCompiler.doExecute(K2JVMCompiler.kt:52) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.common.CLICompiler.execImpl(CLICompiler.kt:88) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.common.CLICompiler.execImpl(CLICompiler.kt:44) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.cli.common.CLITool.exec(CLITool.kt:98) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.incremental.IncrementalJvmCompilerRunner.runCompiler(IncrementalJvmCompilerRunner.kt:386) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.incremental.IncrementalJvmCompilerRunner.runCompiler(IncrementalJvmCompilerRunner.kt:110) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.incremental.IncrementalCompilerRunner.compileIncrementally(IncrementalCompilerRunner.kt:286) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.incremental.IncrementalCompilerRunner.compileImpl$rebuild(IncrementalCompilerRunner.kt:99) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.incremental.IncrementalCompilerRunner.compileImpl(IncrementalCompilerRunner.kt:114) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.incremental.IncrementalCompilerRunner.compile(IncrementalCompilerRunner.kt:74) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.daemon.CompileServiceImplBase.execIncrementalCompiler(CompileServiceImpl.kt:607) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.daemon.CompileServiceImplBase.access$execIncrementalCompiler(CompileServiceImpl.kt:96) at org.jetbrains.kotlin.daemon.CompileServiceImpl.compile(CompileServiceImpl.kt:1659) at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke0(Native Method) at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(NativeMethodAccessorImpl.java:77) at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.java:43) at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:568) at java.rmi/sun.rmi.server.UnicastServerRef.dispatch(UnicastServerRef.java:360) at java.rmi/sun.rmi.transport.Transport$1.run(Transport.java:200) at java.rmi/sun.rmi.transport.Transport$1.run(Transport.java:197) at java.base/java.security.AccessController.doPrivileged(AccessController.java:712) at java.rmi/sun.rmi.transport.Transport.serviceCall(Transport.java:196) at java.rmi/sun.rmi.transport.tcp.TCPTransport.handleMessages(TCPTransport.java:587) at java.rmi/sun.rmi.transport.tcp.TCPTransport$ConnectionHandler.run0(TCPTransport.java:828) at java.rmi/sun.rmi.transport.tcp.TCPTransport$ConnectionHandler.lambda$run$0(TCPTransport.java:705) at java.base/java.security.AccessController.doPrivileged(AccessController.java:399) at java.rmi/sun.rmi.transport.tcp.TCPTransport$ConnectionHandler.run(TCPTransport.java:704) at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor.runWorker(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:1136) at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:635) at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:833) FAILURE: Build failed with an exception. * What went wrong: Execution failed for task ':core-util:kaptGenerateStubsDebugKotlin'. > Internal compiler error. See log for more details * Try: Run with --stacktrace option to get the stack trace. Run with --info or --debug option to get more log output. Run with --scan to get full insights. * Get more help at https://help.gradle.org Deprecated Gradle features were used in this build, making it incompatible with Gradle 8.0. You can use '--warning-mode all' to show the individual deprecation warnings and determine if they come from your own scripts or plugins. See https://docs.gradle.org/7.2/userguide/command_line_interface.html#sec:command_line_warnings BUILD FAILED in 5s 13 actionable tasks: 1 executed, 12 up-to-date 
java --version returns this:
Picked up _JAVA_OPTIONS: -Dawt.useSystemAAFontSettings=on -Dswing.aatext=true openjdk 17.0.1 2021-10-19 OpenJDK Runtime Environment (build 17.0.1+12) OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM (build 17.0.1+12, mixed mode) 
and ./gradlew --version returns this:
Picked up _JAVA_OPTIONS: -Dawt.useSystemAAFontSettings=on -Dswing.aatext=true ------------------------------------------------------------ Gradle 7.2 ------------------------------------------------------------ Build time: 2021-08-17 09:59:03 UTC Revision: a773786b58bb28710e3dc96c4d1a7063628952ad Kotlin: 1.5.21 Groovy: 3.0.8 Ant: Apache Ant(TM) version 1.10.9 compiled on September 27 2020 JVM: 17.0.1 (Oracle Corporation 17.0.1+12) OS: Linux 5.15.13-arch1-1 amd64 
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